Great sex starts with amazing foreplay, and luckily for you, I’ve got all the tips and tricks for making yours unforgettable.
- Cum-munication, baby
Do you know what really gets your partner(s) hot under the collar, and vise versa? Some great ways to get around the ‘awkard’ conversation about what you want can be dirty talk, or to put on a show for your partner and masturbate in front of them, showing exactly how you want them to touch you.
- Take your sweet time
Don’t rush through the supporting act just to get to the headliner – foreplay can be just as satisfying as the sex itself! It can be harder to achieve real pleasure when things are being rushed, putting pressure on the situation. Take your time, explore your partners body, and pay attention to their responses to your actions.
- Bring them to the edge
Edging is the act of bringing someone to the very precipice of orgasm, only to take away the stimulant right when they are about to reach their peak, and repeat. Edging can lead to a better orgasm when you finally allow your partner to reach climax. If you’re playing with someone who has a vulva, try edging them with a toy such as a wand or bullet vibrator, and see just how long it takes until they’re begging for release…
- Sorry, we’re a little tied up…
Including bondage in your foreplay can really help to spice things up. If you’re a beginner, invest in a starter kit that will have all the essentials you need to enhance your play session. Just remember to settle on safewords beforehand!
- Show them your moves
Who needs to head down to the club when you can give your partner a lap dance and strip tease at home? Throw on something sexy, and this can be a great way to boost your own confidence, build some sexual tension, and get your partner sweating a little.
- Couples who read together, sleep together
There’s so much juicy erotic literature out in the world for you and your partner to explore. As a warm up act before sex, take it in turns reading some x-rated stories to each other – for extra points, act out the scenes from what you’ve just read! You might even discover something new.
- Peachy keen
Incorporating anal play into your usual blowjobs and fingering can really take things to the next level, adding new and exciting sensations! Treat yourself to a new butt plug – oh, and don’t forget the lube.
- How’s that pressure for you?
If you haven’t tried giving your partner a sensual massage yet, now is the time. Invest in some deliciously scented massage oil and put those hands to work, exploring every crevice of their body until they’re putty in your arms.
- Now you see me…
Taking away your partner’s sight will enhance all of their other senses. Dress them in a blindfold and leave them guessing at what your next move will be… tease them with light touches or leave them breathless from overstimulation.
- Hot and cold
Try experimenting with a little bit of temperature play to heighten sensations. Trail an ice cube along your lover’s torso, or have them gasping with the mix of pleasure and pain with wax play.
Pleasureful 
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